If you’re not big on the Elf on the Shelf concept, but enjoy making the December countdown fun for your kids, you’ll love these kind and friendly alternatives to Elf on the Shelf.
We don’t do Elf on the Shelf here, because my boys were teenagers before I ever learned about him. I don’t have a real problem with the whole elf thing, but I know some folks aren’t crazy about him.
I do love a creative way to count down the days to Christmas though, and that’s where these awesome alternatives to Elf on the Shelf can be a lot of fun.
In case you’re not familiar with the elf on the shelf, let me brief you:
The way it traditionally works with “Elf on the Shelf” is that an elf comes to live with you for the month of December. This can be an elf that you pick up at the dollar store, or that you make yourself, or you can get authentic, store-bought “Elf on the Shelf” kits that come with an elf as well as a book of suggested late-night antics for your elf to perform while your children sleep.
During the day, your elf sits high-up on a shelf (hence the name Elf on the SHELF) so he can watch your children, and report their behaviour back to the North Pole.
Then, while the family sleeps, the elf frolics about the house, getting into all kinds of mischief, making messes and pulling pranks for the kids to find in the morning. It’s all fun and innocent, but some people find the whole concept a little creepy and unsettling.
Ok, so what if you want to get in on some of the holiday countdown fun, but you’re not a fan of the elf himself?
Is there a way to do “Elf on the Shelf” without that cheeky little elf and his naughtiness?
You bet there is! And I’ve rounded up 7 cute and creative alternatives to Elf on the Shelf to get your wheels turning!
7 Cute and Creative Alternatives to Elf on the Shelf:
Some of these ideas are thoughtful and meaningful, some focus more on the nativity and the birth of Christ, and some are just for fun. Hopefully you’ll find one in here that inspires you to start an annual Christmas tradition that’s perfect for your family.
Meet our Rascally Reindeer . They love to play hide ‘n seek, and they keep the hooligans on their toes all throughout the month of December.
Finding Jingle Bells
Drop by “Edventures with Kids” to see how they have fun finding jingle bells in the weeks leading up to Christmas. This easy Elf-alternative doesn’t require a daily commitment, and it you can even take it outdoors.
Pop over to Mama Hall, to see what Mary, the Advent Angel delivers to the kids each morning.
The Christmas Mouse
Each morning the adorable Christmas Mouse, over at “Little Page Turners”, assigns the kids a daily mission. To make things easy for you, Christianne has generously provided a list of 25 creative suggestions to use with your Christmas Mouse. I love how this family keeps tabs on what their mouse is up to during the off-season.
Pay a visit to “The Imagination Tree” to see how these Kindness Elves inspire Anna’s daughters to do something for others every day during the month of December.
You can order a set of Anna’s Kindness Elves which come complete with the following accessories:
- Visual Step-By-Step Guide for Parents about using the Kindness Elves and Accessories
- 50 Acts of Kindness Cards
- Little Book of Big Kindnesses
- Mini Postcards for the Kindness Elves to write to the children
- 8 Sheets of Stickers
- Bottle of Magic Sprinkles
What a wonderful way for your family to focus on love, gratitude and positivity during the holiday season.
You can also check out this kindness elf idea from Amy at The Idea Room.
Travelling Mary and Joseph
This alternative to Elf on the Shelf by “Walking in Grace and Beauty” focuses on the true meaning of Christmas and the birth of Christ. When they were young, each day, the children helped a travelling Mary and Joseph get a little closer to the birth place of Baby Jesus.
And the 7th Alternative to the Elf on the Shelf is…
I haven’t a blog post or photo to share with this Christmas elf idea because it’s something we did years ago when our boys were little.
On the 20th of December, when my boys couldn’t stand the Christmas anticipation any longer, “the elves” would pay a visit while we were sleeping. Let me explain: for each of my boys, I would buy a set of 4 matching toys – maybe a set of 4 matchbox cars or 4 plastic dinosaurs or Little People figures.
On those final mornings before Christmas, the boys would awake to find one toy on the foot of their bed. If it was a car, they knew they could look forward to another car the next morning as well. Similarly if it was an action figure, they knew they had 3 more action figures coming their way. It was such a small thing, but SO exciting, and it was just enough to get them through those last few days before Christmas finally arrived.
I don’t know how I thought up idea because no-one I knew was doing any elf things. It’s not something my parents did for us kids. My mom often said she wished she HAD thought to do it for us. I just came up with it as a way to help my boys get through those last few days of waiting. I’m so glad we DID do it though because my boys, now teenagers, still say those elf visits were one of their favourite things about Christmas-time.
See, it really isn’t all about the gifts under the tree. It’s about the traditions you create with your family, and the memories that you can all look back on together that mean the most.
Have you and your family put your own spin on the Elf and the Shelf? I’d love to hear what family traditions you’ve created at your house to help countdown the days until Christmas.
Now, if you ARE doing EOS, check out these fun Elf on the Shelf Ideas from Spaceships and Laserbeams! There are even letter templates you can print off that your elf can leave for your kids!
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